agreed and was made to pay a fine of 300,000 cedis and a sewing machine for making a
schoolgirl pregnant. [Yolanda]
After giving birth, Yolanda said she dropped out of school because she felt too ashamed
to continue:
I got pregnant and had to stop going to school . No one did [asked me to stop school]. I
advised myself against going to school when I realized I was pregnant usually when
girls get pregnant in school others start teasing her when they get to know about the
pregnancy. I didn't want to go through the humiliation from school, so I stopped.
[Yolanda]
Another participant, who had been pregnant twice, each time by a different man, had
problems getting her second boyfriend to take responsibility for the pregnancy.
When I got pregnant and he did not mind me. [Pauline]
She found a third boyfriend who agreed to take responsibility for the pregnancy.
It was the man I'm seeing now, that I had two children with. He looked after me until I
gave birth. [Pauline]
In all of the cases where the participants said that their boyfriends refused to
acknowledge the pregnancy, the girls either opted for an abortion or they involved others
(parents or another boyfriend) to establish a father for the child. In the cases where they had
abortions, the girls had to pay for the medicine and procedure themselves.
5.3.2 Girl Wants Abortion, Boyfriend or Husband Wants Birth
The main reasons that participants cited for wanting to have an abortion, even when their
boyfriends/husbands wanted them to give birth, was to maintain or improve their sources of
financial support and improve their earning or employment potential the same reasons given in
situations where both the girl and her boyfriend wanted to terminate the pregnancy. This
happened even when a couple already had one child together. Another less frequently cited
reason for having an abortion was that the girl did not love the boyfriend and wanted to avoid
further involvement with him. In most of the situations where the girl wanted an abortion, neither
the girl's nor the boy's parents were brought into the process of deciding how to handle the
pregnancy. The general understanding was that a girl should get the consent of the boyfriend/
husband either to terminate or continue a pregnancy. This did not always happen, however,
according to the girls' reports.
The consensus seemed to be that a girl should get the consent of her boyfriend or husband
to have an abortion. In the three cases where the couple disagreed, one girl eventually obtained
the consent and help of her boyfriend, and two girls obtained abortions on their own. In two
other cases where there was disagreement, the girls used home remedies to induce abortion, but
were unsuccessful.
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